Partner left after 9 yrs - reconciled now married!

[AliSuddenly]

Well for all of us here, you and me included! And those that post on your thread, which has become a bit of a gathering ground at times for those that are struggling with Piecing, as you have. I'm glad you changed your mind and kissed him afterall!! Think of that poor gf that never did..

True Michelle! I asked him last night, do you think we should have got M years ago? He said yes, because we really loved each other. I reminded him he asked me in 2001 and I said no because I had depression at the time. When I was better a few months later, I said, ok, Yes! but he said..the offer has lapsed! We used to joke about it at parties... but I told him last night, really it hurt me deeply. I asked why he withdrew his offer and he said my 'no' hurt him and he felt rejected, he didnt think it was because I was ill at the time!

Its wonderful being married and we really do have a new R now, thats very different to our old R. For example, we try harder now to talk and actually listen which maybe we didnt before.

I'm kinda hopeful about the IUI.. we are due to be treated next Wed/Thu.. when Jupiter is exact conjunct Uranus in Pisces! This is for us, lady luck, pointing the finger of fate at us (buy a lottery ticket M!)