Dsh,

Forget that you've been trying to save your marriage for months. Is this woman someone who's stable? Who's going to be in a good relationship with you? Doubtful.

It's very natural to be attracted to potential partners right now. I struggle with it all the time, especially since physical affection is so important to me. But I'm patient, my vows matter, and until I'm officially divorced, I'll do nothing that I'd regret in the future. Do The Right Thing... (wow, I should change my forum handle to Spike Lee).