But I am supposed to be learning and I over-reacted again! Luckily, it wasn't with my H, but it was with my kids and I have worked so hard to keep my cool around them!!!
S14 always tells me it will be ok!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
How about this horoscope? (www.priyakale.com/blog/) I like Priya Kale because she is very positive and writes wonderfully encouraging horoscopes.
"Early Friday (in NYC), Mercury made an interior conjunction to the Sun in Virgo, asking for introspection if we want to gain insight. There are deeper processes coming to light, and it would be easy to find fault with a situation or look to place blame, shame, or guilt.
Saturn has finally entered Libra after a challenging two-year phase through Virgo. During this time it also formed a series of oppositions to Uranus in Pisces, rocking the boat wildly within situations.
Now, Saturn is in Libra and the pressure’s off, but with Mercury retrograde in Virgo, we are still highly sensitive to this energy. It may be hard to “believe” that we don’t face the same restrictions we once did or that anything can change.
As we approach the New Moon this week and Mercury stations direct at the end of the week, there is every reason to believe that things can and will get better. There is nothing so wrong that cannot be “fixed.” Forgive yourself and others for what may have gone wrong in the past, and focus on the constructive steps you can take.
Trust that this has been a crucial learning process. Only in recognizing and acknowledging our “mistakes” can we learn, evolve, and grow as human beings.........
...........This can be a potently healing aspect for relationships, allowing us to let go of resentments and clear the air with honest conversation. Be compassionate, and keep things light and breezy. The aspect could help us appreciate the beauty in our differences while still connecting on a heart, mind, and soul level.
With the Moon drifting from Cancer to Leo, the mood is likely to shift from emotional to passionate. What we seek ultimately is freedom, acceptance to be ourselves, and to be loved for who we are. But this means offering the same space and respect to another."
I agree, things look better in the morning. As dark comes, however . . . It's called sun-downers in the medical community. Elderly people ( not exclusively) who are fine during the day, but as night approaches, they become agitated and a bit off.
Only makes us human. I keep saying that because sometimes I have to remind myself. CW, we both had a bad night. I think weekends are bad, and long weekends the worst.
Question? And I do not mean this to sound condescending in any way. Do you guys really believe in Horoscopes? I mean, planetary changes are actual things, and I myself can't sleep during a full moon. Just wondering of your take on it.
CW - I have the occasional flare up when I question why on earth would I want my H back after all that he has done and said....these feelings come and go....often I remind myself that this is not the man I knew and that he is in a very bad emotional state....despite the "mask" that he usually wears...he is a wreck. I almost pity him...
Could he ever become the strong, emotionally healthy person that he used to be? I don't know....only time will tell. So I'm moving on, but leaving a small space for the possibility that my man will re-appear.....and if he does then I will decide if I still want to share my life with him.
punkin - I must say that I believe that there is something to horoscopes. Maybe not as much the generic horoscope predictions, but to what sign you were born in....from experience I swear that people born under the same sign have many of the same personality traits....just my take on it
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
I do believe all things in the universe are connected. Planetary alignments, sun, moon, everything. Everything cycles, us included.
Like Mila said, the generic horoscopes are so general that you could fit just about anything that happens in to them. Some of those that are more serious about it can be uncanny in their accuracy.
Maybe WhatNow will stop by and give us her opinion on your question. She is very knowledgeable on the subject.
I am right there with you sister! For some reason I get strong during the week and fall apart on the weekends. That is when he is out with her and people see them together. Then he was supposed to spend time with the kids today but text me and said he was tired from work and that he wasn't going to see them but would call them tonight. nice.
hang in there ( i will be on the branch hangin next to you!)
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
Our H's must have 'Hooked up' ( and I do mean hooked) at about the same time. Treating your D's that way is shabby, to say the least, but, at least he has contact with them. Mine has all but forgotten our D's and their kids. Even busy, weekends are always the worst for me. Too much time to think, even occupied with other things.
