ah, no wonder that book resonated so profoundly; Susan Anderson and I are kindred spirits. I recognized my own PTSD and the need for a DSM-IV update even before reading that very dead-on book. Learned many other things therein, as well as having my perceptions validated. And even if they are just my perceptions, does anything else really matter at this point??
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012