wow Sanderika, such a wonderful and moving post and would you mind if I asked you a question, are you speaking about my ex, because as strange as it may seem you have described him to a T, and also the ow, who in my case managed to get ex to marry her, but it is plain to see from your post all these ow are of the same mould and at the end of the day only have the money of the exes in mind, wonder when the money runs out where all this will go, who knows