Yes I see that it is forcing her to make that decision and so is not leading. I do not want a divorce at this time and so will not ask for one. What would you suggest?
This is my balance issue. I have done the pursuing things. Got her to go to a counselor twice before she stopped. I've actively tried to ease her domestic pressures even though I'm not living there currently. When I've done so and when I've tried to take charge, she gets angry that it didn't happen earlier. I am trying to persevere but do not want to be pursuing and shutting her down more. What am I missing?
