Hi freespirit, and welcome.
I'm new here, but from what I've read, you do not fit the WAW syndrome. It seems as if you are open to fixing things, but cautious. Those are good instincts. It sounds as is if your H sending you that is lame attempt at a guilt trip. Don’t take it. I would reply to his “article” by saying, “Interesting read. What are you going to do about it?”
Be honest with yourself. Listen to criticism, but don’t think for a second he has no blame.

Good luck!


M:37
W:34
M:4 years
T:6 years
No Kids
A disclosed - 9/1/2010
W asks for separation - 10/19/2010
Moving on - 10/24/2010
A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010
Content - 3/1/2011
Served - 3/18/2011
D Day - 6/20/2011