Originally Posted By: Cas05
PS My L is chasing me to finish off this financial stuff and the D. What do I do? H says he's in a big hurry and then takes no action. He knows I have the stuff here to complete. Do I initiate it all or wait for him and just stall L?

The lawyer works for you.
What do you want?
If you don't want to be divorced tell the lawyer that you are in no hurry.
Let your husband set the pace for all of it.
Thats MHO.