I'm 35. Wife is 34. Been married barely a year. Together for 4. Known each other for 10. Living apart from my wife right now. I read the post on WAW and that is my wife right now. I haven't seen her in a month. We've had mundane maintenance type texts and emails but no conversations. I sent her a 14 page letter apologizing and accepting responsibility for not being there for her in our M like I should have been, for acting selfishly and immaturely, and for not being present.
Wow, 14 pages. That's a helluva lot of screw-ups, and lack of "presence" for just 4 years. Did you address things that you GENUINELY believe in your own heart of hearts were your shortcomings, or were you trying to address the complaints that she gave you when she bombed you?
