bklynt,

As you can see you are not alone. My W left me on July 4th and I have only recieved 2 emails from her since. And I can see that you have reacted as a LBS, pleading, begging, willing to change. I recommend reading as many posts as possible to understand what worked and whar didn't work as well as DR.

I am still figuring out my W's temperature, but one thing I did immdeiately was to reflect and understand my issues. I am working with an IC now, however understand that it takes two to make a M work so your W has some responsibility in getting were you two are now.

I have since pulled back and not pursuing my W. I recommend any conversations with your W that you do not bring up R, M or D. Give her time and space and understand patience...believe me you will need it!