Well, this is why i am so torn. I spent so long divorce busting, trying to save my marriage and then last month I end up divorced anyway. It is so against my nature to reject someone but the more I have no contact with him the better I am. But my head says reject and my heart screams out no.
I know what I should do - ignore him I guess, we have no reason for contact, no children and no house anymore. That is what is best for me, it is just putting it into practice that is the hard part.