H sent me WAW Syndrome article...here I am.

[Doodi]

You and I are in similar situations. I will say that my H says he understands what he did was wrong but I don't know if he will ever change.

What I've learned since I joined this forum is that I can only concern myself with me. I have to take my responsibility in our M and where it is today. I have learned that I have some co-dependency issues and some control issues. So that's where I'm working right now.

Now I'm not saying that if you find/fix any problems within yourself that your M will be saved. But finding any personal issues you might have will make you a better you. And that is at the core of Divorce Busting--IMO.

Just know that you are not alone on here and you will get valuable advice from vets and newbies alike. Sometimes it's just good to vent or here I get it. So today all I can offer is an I GET IT moment. You are not alone.

Smooches,
Doodi