Tonight H sent me a skype message and then we chatted for a while over our D and I suggested at some point that it was his r with her and perhaps none of my business. H told me that if he didn't want me involved he would tell me that and that I should never assume or guess there's an issue/problem cos I could be wrong.
The unspoken message I got was that all is travelling well between us and if a problem eventuates he'll tell me but unless he tells me there is a problem there definitely isn't. I sensed this was his affirmation. From that and the tone of the conversation generally tonight and last night I feel I'm on the right track. I just need an extra dose of patience!!
So again, I'd love to know where ow fits in here. I told my friend that ow now seems to be fairly insignificant and my friend said that was a good way to describe her. Then she added if you take the time he spends with you and talking to you, there's not too much quality time left. H is going to stay with our S this weekend so def no ow then.
