Abusive spouse accuses "WAW" as "the" problem

[freespirit]

He wrote in his last email that "he is not the problem" and insists that my walking away (moved out last Nov with child) is what has caused the breakdown in our marriage. HIS ABUSIVE ways (emotional, spiritual, financial) have all but killed my love for him...as a DB quote states: I did not leave HIM but I left the situation that HE caused (in part) and perpetuated (even after my constant pleas to reconcile; he would not!!!)

So I have a husband of nearly 12 years who insists on taking NO responsibility for his behavior toward me; will not "hear me" and I am gone and he is still trying to accuse and name call...I am not responding.