I have to work today. I received phone calls from my wife's sister and father last night. The are upset with situation and hope Virginia will come around. I do feel the loss of my wife and family. There is a definite chink in the armour. I am just trying to connect with friends and family. I have been thinking of the 29 years I have known my wife. I suspect she is hurting too but in a different way. I do know that I am more in love with her now than before and I hope she feels the same crazy feeling that there is a loss with the interaction. The Last resort technique is in place and this is day 4 with no contact. Well need to get ready for work. Bobby O