I mainly use this for journaling and insight from othes. But I try and offer some advice as to how I see things. When kids are involved its a whole different thing. I think when Kids are involved itcan work to help the cause. The freedom of a WA is not as open as without kids. THey have responsibilites other than themselves. That is why I did not fight her taking the kids. Not because I do not leve them, she is a good mother and I know they are safe, But she really needs to see how it is with her being by herself with the kids, I have done it, not easy.
As far as your sitch, there are advantages there as well. You do not have anything that keeps you seeing each other. Which means you can go completely dark, mysterious and no contact. The info you have discovered lately, as much as it hurts, gives you more of a reason to have no further contact with her, lets se how she handles that.
I will say this though...Random Good Morning texts or How are you doings will not be responded to. I know my reaction when I see them. DELETE. No more small talk and no more temp checking...she's on her own.
I mentioned that he was driving her Tahoe that day, insurance is being transferred Tuesday. I'll be damned if HomeBoy is driving around on OUR insurance. No Lawyer needed for that. Since I could die Tuesday, she also is being removed as Beneficiary. If Lawyer tells me by law I can remove her from Health Insurance...she's gone....she takes almost a $1000 hit a month for that one. Otherwise, Sept 30 she will feel FREE from me.
