Sunny I understand what you're saying. But don't overlook the possibility he's in processing mode still.

Men are funny creatures like that. We tend to process alone and think things through.

That's why I suggested the innocuous plans. Something non-threatening. It's working on the marriage in a subtle way. Of course there's going to come a time when you both will have to openly look at the issues in the M and actually communicate about them.

In the meantime keep doing things for yourself. Keep building yourself a nice life.

MySitch
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