Yeah, luvless, I'm not surprised. It's funny how the experience with my wife has affected how I see women. For a woman to be sexually attractive I need to feel she has an erotic mind and libido. I can look at a physically perfect woman and imagine that she's got no libido, and the thought just drains the sexual attractiveness right out of her. I could still see her as a nice person and good friend, but she might as well be my sister or mother.