Nope, that is why I have talked to her about what she is doing. not encouraging her to be or in fact go against the M. I have passed on a lot ofwhat I have learned here to other people.

She could be telling me just what she wants to at this time, I am not going to get in the middle of their sitch, and will not try to discourage her M, I am actually trying to help her with her M.

Again I dont know if he is fighting for it, she said over the last 3 months he has kept the kids for one night, in that he pawned them off to his parents so he could go out. I am not trying to judge but when I have my kids, they are with me, I do not pass them off to someone else, I embrace my time with them, d things with them and not focus on anything but them.