ugh. 5 kids. hard to leave the home w/ them to care for from age 4 to 15, but if it has to be done for the sake of my marriage (especially as she has said she is DONE).... she has more or less intimated that she will not budge but so be it. i can be the one to go. lots of planning to do. do not know where to begin. one of the largest and most important undertakings of my life thus far, not trying to be too dramatic either.

am in middle of reading penny tuby's book. wow. awesome stuff. from intervention phase to protection phase. i know understand what u mean TH. thanks.