Yeah - you're right about the concert - same with movies. Although, there was plenty of time before and after, and inbetween groups to interact. I guess I'm just used to having those little things between H and I. You know - the lookover during mutual appreciated songs... a squeeze of the hand during something meaningful - laughing together over stuff. All of that was missing and it was just so sad to me.

I think doing something more adventurous like you mentioned above would be great. Definitely 180s from the norm. I used to go horsebacking all the time but it's been AGES. Never been rock climbing...sky diving....I'd have to work up the nerve, but hey, you never know!