My interpretation... Your H is as big a jerk as mine. I don't know how long your into this whole process Sol, but been there, done that. Now I look back at myself and just want to beat the crap out of myself for pleading for him to come back to me.

"you may be right" means that he's happiest gone.
"This is living well" means he's having a gay old time without commitment.
"Life is to f-ck up" means he wants to f-ck up and deal with the consequences later.

YOU DESERVE BETTER!! Make a new life for yourself without this A-hole! In fact, join me in my plans for freedom! New Years in NY, Mardi Gras in February, and some place in Europe next summer.

Keep yourself busy with things that make you happy. You deserve better than the way this guy is treating you. Learn from this experience.

FYI - my H told me AGAIN this morning he's not involved with OW anymore... Dumb a$$ left his e-mail open on the computer AGAIN and they're planning to move in together. signing off "I love you"

No matter what he says, no matter what you WANT to believe, ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. Don't let yourself be taken for a ride like me.


When you are happy as an individual, you are in a better position to determine whether a partner enhances your happy life or weighs it down.