You are totally caught up in this, I hope by thetime you read this you are awake tomorrow, and laughing about it. At some point you have to have the attitude a couple posts back, He can have her. i have posted on my thread about the fact that WA's leave thinking YOU are the problem, when they leave they think I am in the right, I have no issues. Well after a while they realize (some dont) that they also have issues. The difference is, luckily for this website we start to look inside oursleves and see what we need to do. Unfortunately the WA's dont have this guidance to see their true "colors".
You have to be the bigger adult and let them swim in the Sh!t pond they decided to swim in. Its kinda like jaws swimming in the open ocean with no fear, then all of a sudden a big ffing shark comes out and bites your leg off, they scream for help and guess what, they are so far into their fantasy no one is there to rescues them. I only use these types of comparissons becasue my mom is a retired hollywierd writer and I grew up in Los Angeles. Either way I have been there done that, dealing with 2 divorces, EA/ PA and just the simple WAW with no OM. I should be like puppy and coach but I am not I go back to my old ways....
LOL Thanks Dsh...I am laughing AND he can have her. I swear...I just type out my thought patterns here. I Promise. I will not cave friend. I'm pro-ME and everything was sent yesterday. I have done nothing stupid today.
I love the Shark analogy! That's about it, balls in my court and she's swimming out too far.
