You are dealing with a serial adulterer. He has a serious character flaw. Nothing you do, including initiating sex X number of times a week will fix that. You could initiate sex 7 times a week with him for the rest of your life and that won't solve this problem.
Look, we get it. You love him. You think this can be fixed. Truth be told, it can. But not by you. You can only control what you do.
He has a serious character flaw. It's an addiction. You must treat it like that. Your H needs some serious IC help, and quickly if you want to save this M.
Like Pinhead said, you need to set boundaries. Since your H doesn't want to end the M, I would highly encourage you to set those boundaries that Pinhead put out IMMIDIATELY. If he crosses them, you need to kick his a$$ out. Seriously.
I hate to admit it, but I'm sort of an expert on this. My wife has had, hmm, up to this point that I know of, about 6 EAs within 4.5 years of marriage. I wish I would have kicked her out after discovering the second one.
Please, take our advice. I know it is tough, but it is what you have to do if you want a H that is dedicated to you, and you only.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
