Yes and No on the entry thing. If she comes over and acts weird call the cops, its called a verbal disturbance. Even when my W and I were split before, she had OM and would drive by our house and see "other" cars at our house. So I can relate. Even when they have OP they still want to keep tabs on what you are doing. I think part of the lying is guilt, but at the same time LBS's are known to be "waiting in the wings" so when the exposure happens, I believe the WA's say oh sh!t they might cut me out completely and get revenge.....
Man Dsh,
Thank you for your input. That's exactly why I want to peak around the corner so to speak.
She's made a few comments to me that has made me feel like she has been tabbing me too. Didn't think anything of it. Just thought it was squirrel moves.
I agree with lying being guilt related, but to be so good at it is scary. She wasn't so good as to hide my gut feeling, but good enough to make me question it.
I see mentions of many WAS's keeping the LBS as back up too. Not sure if that has any part in my Sitch, but if it was my W's plan to keep me close, she's going to find out Mr. Nice Guy is gone. Also don't know if she's trying to cake eat too. I definitely see now, how much control she had even when I wasn't pursuing. This time momentum has carried the ball back into my court and I'm not giving it back
I'm just watching TV right now and trying to figure out how to not be an a$$hole and protect myself.
