Doesn't anyone ever get sick and tired of sitting around and being the better person? Yes, the OW is immature and obviously psycho, but evidently that is an attractive trait to the psycho I married. I've been told by the woman that is cheating on her husband with MY Husband to leave my husband alone. How psycho is that? And I should just what? Take it? I've sit here more or less quietly for 7 months now while he played high school teen scream for the teeny bopper.
It's perhaps true that nothing I do or say will make any difference whatsoever in his thinking, but sitting here with my arms folded peacefully across my chest isn't doing it either, to my way of thinking.
The crazier OW gets the more appealing I should be? You would think so, but it appears being out of your mind is a positive and attractive personality trait these days.
In re reading my H's emails to me, I had responded once, being quite made at him, that I wanted to sign divorce papers on March 3rd, the anniversery of the day he betrayed me. The idiot thinks I was serious. He actually thinks I want that in my terms.
If he's suffering, he's doing a brilliant job of acting. From where I'm sitting, the only one suffering is me, yet he thinks I have a life, or doesn't care that I don't.
In closing, I'd like to rant on behalf of all LBS's here, that we do not deserve this sh#t. That all the self evaluation in the world is not going to change the fact that our spouses are self centered assh3les, who have left us behind to be the adults while they play house with other assh3les.
