Okay. I know this goes against all Db'ng advice, but I couldn't resist. I opened a new Email account in a fictitious name and sent H a "suggestive" Ecard. Signed it from Donchawanano. See if she scopes out his texts and finds it.
I know it's wrong, but, THE DEVIL MADE ME DO IT.
Trouble maker
I think the anti DB part is having expectations that it will do anything.
You know you're playing with fire. The OW is a psycho, don't YOU become one too. I know it's hard but you need to take a step back and work on your detachment. Don't ruin any miniscule forward progress you may have made! ((Punkin))
"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"
M18 Me39,H42 D16 Bomb 1/10 Moved out 3/10 OW 6/10 H wants to R,OW gone 11/10 H moves back 5/11 H wants to wear rings again 9/11
I know, I know, but sometimes you have to take the low road just for the cheap tourist attractions. I came across this ecard quite by accident, and this little devil sitting on my left shoulder said, "Why not?" The little angel on my right shoulder was speechless, so I went with the moment.
I'll pray for forgiveness. . . . . . .but I hope it burns her bacon.
Hoo Boy! If OW has any computer savvy, she would check your IP address, and see if it's the same as your other emails. Or she will just assume it's you.
I would just leave well enough alone.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Granted. But I look at it as a win win situation. Either he sees it and doesn't show her but wonders if it's from me, or she sees it, checks it out, but still wonders. That little seed of suspision is planted already in the back of her mind. What's she gonna do? Call the police on me for sending MY husband an ecard?
How is flirting with my husband poking a tiger? Really? I have that right, do I not? All three of us already know that he has thought about me, she's very insecure and threatened. Just a reminder to whomever, I'm here and I'm not going anywhere.
You are good - just remembering your post when you shared that you had let your H know you wanted him back. To me - you have been taking the higher road. The crazier OW gets the more appealing you are. I have faith in you!
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time
Doesn't anyone ever get sick and tired of sitting around and being the better person? Yes, the OW is immature and obviously psycho, but evidently that is an attractive trait to the psycho I married. I've been told by the woman that is cheating on her husband with MY Husband to leave my husband alone. How psycho is that? And I should just what? Take it? I've sit here more or less quietly for 7 months now while he played high school teen scream for the teeny bopper.
It's perhaps true that nothing I do or say will make any difference whatsoever in his thinking, but sitting here with my arms folded peacefully across my chest isn't doing it either, to my way of thinking.
The crazier OW gets the more appealing I should be? You would think so, but it appears being out of your mind is a positive and attractive personality trait these days.
In re reading my H's emails to me, I had responded once, being quite made at him, that I wanted to sign divorce papers on March 3rd, the anniversery of the day he betrayed me. The idiot thinks I was serious. He actually thinks I want that in my terms.
If he's suffering, he's doing a brilliant job of acting. From where I'm sitting, the only one suffering is me, yet he thinks I have a life, or doesn't care that I don't.
In closing, I'd like to rant on behalf of all LBS's here, that we do not deserve this sh#t. That all the self evaluation in the world is not going to change the fact that our spouses are self centered assh3les, who have left us behind to be the adults while they play house with other assh3les.
