Ya I gotcha. I have not ever really let my physical appearance slip too much, but I did lose about 20 pounds of bad weight, started tanning again, and keeping up with the shaving of the head and just looking and being like I am taking care of myself.
It probably goes through their head, why cant we do this while things are normal, why does it take a bomb to wake us up? its like you go back to the loving an imperfect person perfectly. People get comfortable and lose the urge to always look and feel their best.
The girl I dated before the W, I actually ran into a t church, which was very strange. She lives 40 miles away and showed up at my church? we bumped into each other in the hallway? We are both going through a divorce?
