Yes and No on the entry thing. If she comes over and acts weird call the cops, its called a verbal disturbance. Even when my W and I were split before, she had OM and would drive by our house and see "other" cars at our house. So I can relate. Even when they have OP they still want to keep tabs on what you are doing. I think part of the lying is guilt, but at the same time LBS's are known to be "waiting in the wings" so when the exposure happens, I believe the WA's say oh sh!t they might cut me out completely and get revenge.....
