He can have her. Seriously. Divorce, no prob. Moving on? Well soon as I shake the dust off in the next few days.
However, now that her LIES have been busted, I'm curious as how you all think she might react. It's not really the OM that bothers me as much as the damn lies.
Should I change the locks and garage door opener? So she has to make an appointment? She's gonna play the "Can I come see the dogs" card...Do I say no?
I'm pretty sure he was in the house once and if it wasn't him then it was someone else...because the spare bathroom toilet lid was up and I don't use that bathroom. I could "smell" guy when I walked in my house one night after my meeting. I know when something isn't right and I think that Boundary was crossed. I did say something to her about it and she said "I would never bring anyone else in our house". Well...you can see how far her word goes
My gut tells me to change the locks...is that a smart move?
