I'm sorry you had to go through that Faith...especially after tentatively putting out there your friendship and offer to run the dogs with her.
I'm trying to rehearse the proper 'letting go' speech that my head is telling me for when my H comes home. My gut is yelling a whole different speech because I'm pretty sure he's moved on to other women. My heart is creeping in with a please let me fix it speech. If only we could all just do what our heads and the heads here tell us is best for us it would be so much easier, because it's all about keeping our dignity and focusing on ourselves.
I'm sorry you got punched in the gut and the heart. Listen to the head/s. They are trying to keep you safe and strong.
Thanks Oxy,
I'll be okay, I promise! It's too fresh and typing these questions out right now is therapy.
Forgot about that dog running thing. That was her idea, but after yesterday...there will be NO friendship. The lies destroyed that possibility. I truly don't want to be friends with somebody like she is now. Just enough contact to get out from under the house, is enough for me.
