I gave up...filed for D

[courts0818]

I'm so glad to hear that you guys pray. It takes A LOT of control and strength to pray for someone who has hurt you and your kids so badly. Kudos to you for pushing past that pain and setting a great example for your kids. I'm so glad you guys are at peace. You are a great mom bc YOU ARE THE ROCK YOUR KIDS NEED. Take the time to acknowledge that for yourself.

I know how hard it is to deal with their pain as well. It fills me with rage that my H would hurt our DD like this. So the best we can do is just continue to love our kids, give them extra attention and help them through this making sure they know that they have NOTHING to do with the behavior of their rotten father.

Another good idea is to drop simple notes in backpacks, cars or send texts to kids just saying hi and checking in - reminding them that they are loved, you are proud of them, that you guys will get through this, that God will give each of you strength.