pookie,

No, I decided that I should not reward her bad behavior by sending the b-day email. Again, it is a gamble but it appears if I am reading the tea leaves that the 2 times that I let her go and stay dark/semi dark then I get the email. The last was an unsolicited request by her. Maybe a little fog will decipate.

I am not sure about Fb. I am transparent so if she is interested then she has access. But I will make a few comments and I did register for acting class.