Well it won't be here for a few days and I'm trying to react to CB immediately after it happens (or almost immediately. I know he went to sleep after we talked so I figured I can think about the email for a little cause he'll read it in the morning anyway).
Sometimes it pays not to react right away when emotions run high. Even next morning. It's been going on long enough. You can wait.
People may disagree with me here but why not to collect the resentment while learning how to best and most effectively express that in one serving?