They lie to protect themselves and to hide from you.
And YOUR values and morals are what make you YOU and her HER.
Gonna be easier to "call this one in the air", eh?
the anger will surface again and again but smaller each time and farther apart.
Prepare for it. Focus on you, buddy.
I'm sorry Faith, it sucks seeing something like that. I agree with CD Bear. You need to give yourself time, the anger is going to keep coming back, but you have to give yourself time to focus on it and work through it. You may be surprised to learn that this kind of closure was what you both needed.
Me: 24 H: 26 2 SS: 7 & 5; D: 3 H filed D papers: 8/2/10 OW discovered: 08/10 D papers counter-filed: 10/2/10 There is no method to my madness