On two ends of the world..

[ris]

I searched on the internet about dealing with passive-agressiveness and I came across this article: http://www.angriesout.com/couples8.htm

So insightful! And then I got to the end and saw that out of 3 books it was based on, 2 of them are the 2 Terry Real's books pookie mentioned. I've ordered the first one for now.

FMV, it does make a lot of sense. I know that for me avoiding feels "better" for our R, which is completely not! And making changes for yourself is a lot more motivating, because the results depend only on you, not on something you can't control.

And now I'm going to write that email!