It is good that you have successfully detached. I wish I could say the same. I was successful not looking at the dating site that my W is on for 5 to 6 days, but was too curious today as you are well aware.
Definetly, have to focus on GAL. It is just difficult with a long holiday weekend because we would always plan to go away. Now I am sitting on the DB site and analyzing about 10 threads from the current and past to see what was successful and what failed like I would analyzing Income/Profit and Balance sheets.
I realize anger is the enemy as well as speculation. I cannot control my spouse, but I can control me and who I want to be. I am recomitting my goals ensureing that there are plans so that they are attainable. I will attempt to fully detach and let her come to me. She will have to one of these days for D or recomitting to R. Though, I am not sure if I should set a time boundary? I realize that I have value to someone out there.
