How should I proceed now? Is there hope?

[NotCrackingUp]

Thanks Kara,

I wouldn't send anything. Before he left home, while he was in the spare room, I tried to talk to him, but never got any satisfaction. He either blew up and blamed me for his having had an affair, for his dissatisfaction with his life, for climate change and world famine OR rgot in his car and drove off fast, to return very late or the following morning.I tried writing to him, not pleading, but acknowledging past errors, trying to point out how burnt out he was (70hour weeks before the bomb and for sometime previously), telling him that I loved him. The letters were read and kept, but never answered. Then I found Divorce Remedy and realised my error.

I'm not contacting him now, he's the one who contacts me.
I'm just devastated that he could turn against me like this and wonder if it's permanent. I've been looking through what's been posted about the MLC, a lot of it sounds so familiar, but then again I wonder if all that's not just a cop-out. He does seem to be trying to get rid of some old skin, and distance from his kids doesn't seem to affect him the way it would me. New clothes, new friends, breaking away from family.I don't recognise him.

Anyone who cares to : tell us what ye think about the MLC. Fact or fiction?
NotCrackingUp