So if your name is on the bank morgtage deeding the house over will NOT release you from that liability.. not by mortgage company anyways.
Hey Sandy. My name is not on the mortgage, only his is. But we are both on the deed.
Journaling: I had great fun at the wedding on Friday. It was so nice and a couple of people asked me about J and I told them we are getting a D. It's funny bc one friend asked me "How is marriage going?" and I told her and she seemed more uncomfortable than I did when I responded! It gave me a little chuckle. I only said "We are separated and getting a D. But we had 7 wonderful years together." I will not slam him. I think it's better this way.
Had a lab for school yesterday morning and was telling my (cute) lab partner how I'd been to a wedding the night before. He says, "I don't know why people get married. I got D'ed 2 years ago and highly doubt I'd ever do it again." More chuckles. LOL.
Saw my IC. Perfect timing since I had a lot on my mind. I think I will look into depression meds. It was so nice talking to IC.
So remember how I told you guys that Monday morning of last week when I was having an awful time, I texted H?
My text:
Morning H. I do not want this D. This has been a crazy past year but I don't feel it's enough to throw away all of our years together. I still love you and know you still love me. If this is what you truly want then I'd rather see you happy & alone or happy with someone else & not be unhappy w/ me. I feel that we're making a mistake despite hurting eachother a lot. This is not what I want but I do want you to be happy and if you are happier without our M, then I respect that although I don't agree with it. I love you so much that I am willing to see you go if that's what makes you happiest.
What do you guys think of that text? Five days go by with no response and at the wedding Fri night I check my texts and he writes:
You may be right. This is living well. Life is to f-ck up.
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I did not respond (and don't plan to). Your interpretations are welcome.
I don't know why but in my bones, in my core, I feel that he is seeing someone, though he has said he is not over and over again. Maybe it's the 23 year old club girl?
Huge party at my parents' house today for the holiday. Looking forward to that.
