Well folks after everything she decided last night she just doesn't want to be married to me anymore. She says she loves the OM and is moving on because we are "damaged beyond repair".

I appreciate everyone's wisdom and support, now all I can do is wait for the papers and get some closure.

M/49 H/35
Married 10 yrs
4 kids: B9, D7, B5, D3
Learned of EA June 2010
ILYBNILWU June 2010
Learned of SA July 2010