I don't know that I can do this

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I have. I don't have much to tell him. He said he'd do the paperwork but we have already agreed on the division of stuff and assets and custody arrangements. Not sure what else needs to be discussed?

I had been talking to his mom a lot, telling her I still wanted the marriage to work. He said today that 'talking to her wasn't going to change anything' and when I said I know he kind of chuckled. I said 'do I want to save our marriage? Yes. Do I want to be married to the person you are right now? No.' and he just made this unbelieving smirk, which I understand. I don't act as if enough. I can't find the balance.

We should be split by the end of the month. I really just think he is done. I don't think that there is anything I can do. I am sitting on the fence about the affair which makes me' confused and go back and forth between being his friend and being distant b