Wow! Grace comes in many different forms.

Rule #1 in taming someone/something: no sudden moves. (I think I read that in The Little Prince or something....

M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012