Thank you! I appreciate your advice. I have been reading your posts as well trying to gain the WAW perspective. I don't think of you as being on the "Dark Side". You did what you did to survive and my W did the same. Her silence is driving me crazy though.
When I stopped the emails last time is when I recieve her first email comm. And when I let her go this week she sent me the unsolicited request regarding her mail. So I will stop all pursuit including the email that I have been anguishing over acknowledging her b-day this week.
I don't plan to file. If she wants out then she will have to file.
