WAW left on Independence Day and not communicating

[Doodi]

I've been reading/lurking on your thread trying to see if there was anything useful I could say. I'm still very new to this but I'm also one of the few WAW who I've seen on here. That said I'm on the darkside, if you will.

2 things stood out to me recently.

1st--Don't Give in. Your not cutting your losses if you go ahead and file, you are losing everything and the final blow will have been dealt by you. True it is forced by her but that might be what she is looking for. She'd be able to say, "I didn't give up, he did."

2nd--I have to agree with the guys about pursuing her. My H hasn't gone completely dark with me yet, but I know that on the days when he acts completely ambivalent to what I'm doing, my interest is peaked. I'm more interested in him when he 'ignores' me than when he's focused on me. Make sense? I hope so.

Like I said, I'm really new to this and the vets might contradict what I'm saying but I just figured I'd throw my $.02 cents in the hat.

Good luck to ya,
Doodi