During my MLC, I was often irritable for no reason and there were some angry bursts. The reason for these behaviors is we are confused and it is not a comfortable feeling. So we tend to lash out at the people closest to us: spouses. We can't very well lash out at strangers or friends. So unfortunately the LBSes are often the target of our irritability and discomfort...we want to release that feeling and bring down the spouse a peg. It is crazymaking...I'm telling you.
Ignore all crazymaking behaviors. It is not about you. It isn't reflected on you. I remember when XW was kind to me...it just made me more madder. Anger is guilt turned inward. Remember this folks!
