Re-Connecting

[Fightingforher]

Since my STBXW OM has broken it off with her she has become a different person. She is trying to convince everyone that she is now the victim. She was on top of the world when OM was around and she treated everyone like crap. Now she is fighting to redeem any relationship with friends, family and me.

It's hard at times not to speak with her, I know that she is lonely and only calling me until she finds a new distraction. I keep things very light and mostly about our son. She has invited me over to her new place to hang out, to have dinner. I respectfully decline everytime. I don't want to get hurt again and mostly I haven't forgiven her for what she has done.

I've always thought about what I would do if W ever came running back to me? I can honestly say I won't do anything. The past 6 months have been the hardest thing I've ever dealt with. Now that I'm on my own and finding out who I am I realized that I don't need my W to survive. My focus right now is my son and my career.

My W is going to have to deal with the reality that she left her family because she thought the grass was greener. Currently that isn't the case. She is miserable, lonely and looking for someone to pick her up.

I can't be that guy anymore...........