You could try to detach 'as if' you are moving on (without leaving your marraige), do the GAL stuff, and so on. You could work on you, and if you do it successfully, he might notice you are 'not there'?
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
