Unfortunately, I don't know. You can talk to folks here, but the problem there is that most of the men here didn't wake up until their marriage was either on the rocks or over.
Even Coach will tell you that his awakening happened when Greek left him, and I would hate to recommend anything that extreme in your case because there is a danger the Marriage will end.
Have you read "The Divorce Remedy"?
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
