So tonight I went out to dinner with H and D for Father's Day. D urged me to come with them. I said I didn't want to impose but H said it was fine with him if I joined them. Had an enjoyable night. H shared all about his weekend away.

Then D said some fairly insensitive things in a joking manner to H. It was a 'go' at ow and her children. Was a bit uncomfortable. H didn't say anything in response to D but he was quiet when we left.

Lance, not sure about 'pot stirring' but guess I have the general gist. Am I doing that or are you just concerned because I have expressed my impatience?