I thought your post to be very interesting, I too have witnessed many things that you have explained, which yet again proves to me that my ex is definately mlc material. I too have been at this five years, and also ex as cut myself and his only child out of his life, he is definately going under now but still cannot see the error of his ways, maybe one day our exes will wake up and face the destruction of their lives, maybe they will sit in the tunnel forever, it is a shame, but we cannot halt our lives for them, onward and upward my friend
